First Nick Confuses Me, and Now Nicole is Confusing Me?!

I thought that Nicole and DJ AM were finished and that they were not dating or getting married anytime soon. Then, I also thought that she was hanging out with Paris' ex which made me love her even more....And now I see her with DJ AM again?! STOP CONFUSING ME AND GET MARRIED ALREADY....That way I can rationalize your divorce in 3 years! But this hanging out and not hanging out thing...That is too confusing for me.